Stop Dieting Start Living
“Just diets don’t work, if you want to lose weight you need a lifestyle change”, this is what you have heard so many times in your sleep. But what is lifestyle change? How do you know when you have done one? Or what does a lifestyle change mean, feel or look like?? There is no mystical wisdom one would get when “the change occurs” that tells when, what and how much to eat. Now if you are wondering what is the difference between a ‘diet mentality’ and a ‘lifestyle mentality’, then it is nothing but simply a matter of perspective. Having the right perspective and sticking to it till the end makes all the difference in the world when it comes to achieving your goals, avoiding unnecessary suffering and hanging onto your achievements over the long haul.
Here are few ways in which diet differs from lifestyle:
1)Diet is nothing but a number game. The number might be on the scale or the number of calories you eat or the number of calories you burn. And success in terms of diet is measured in terms of how well you stick to the numbers you would have set for yourself. When it comes to lifestyle everything is about you. It is about, your personal eating and physical activities, your goals and desires. Success here would be defined in terms of how, the changes you have made helps you feel about yourself.
2)Diet forces you to believe that reaching a certain weight or the mark you would have set for yourself is the key to finding happiness. On any good day if these numbers just mess a bit, it would be so upsetting. Where as lifestyle teaches you that obesity is not a problem but just a result of the problem. Instead of worrying about being obese, concentrating on the finding solutions for the problems responsible for being obese are what lifestyle points we to.
3)Diet means lots of changes. Changes in your eating techniques. Changes in the type of food intake. Start counting and measuring. So when you are on diet its not you who is working for you but the technique you are following. Once you reach your desired goal. Everything seems to go back to normal. Everything including your weight. And, so your problems solved with diet also seems to be fine until there. Where as making a lifestyle change, not only involves an internal change but also a permanent change in eating, food and physical activity. Here you realize the primary concern is not the food intake or how much food you have but it is about how and why you eat.
If you are seriously thinking about reducing weight, it is important that just diet does not work. You should prepare yourself both mentally and physically to have a lifestyle change, which not only helps you in reducing weight, but also helps you stay fit healthy and fine in the long run.
How do I stop bingeing on cakes,chocolates and sweets?
I binge on sweet foods and want to lose weight. I read this book called 'Eat less' and it didnt really work. I need to lose about 14lbs. After I broke up with my boyf and quit my job I havent been able to stop. I started bingeing a year ago and often eat secretly late at night and feel really rubbish after it. If I have some choc its sparks me off and then I think I will just diet tomorrow. I live with family so there are always goodies in the house. Any advice?
If your family was aware of your problem, I'm sure they wouldn't keep sweets in the house. So, try discussing it with them and they might even join in on the diet.
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you need will power. if you crave cake eat a piece of fruit. if you still want that cake eat another piece of fruit. drink a glass of water. or go for a walk. put a picture of yourself at your fattest right in front of the cake, maybe that will stop you.
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try drink water, a huge glass of cold a water, right befor eyou think you might eat sweets, not only does it ruin your appitite, but it also gives you time to reconsidered what you are about to do!
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my solution to your problem is if u commit to drink atleast a glass or 2 of water before u eat anything,you wont eat much.
I love to eat oreos and with this rule i have bring myself to 1 cookie a day now.
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Okay I love sweets and especially chocolate too and I live with my family also. Yeah, it sux because there's always something sweet in the house and I dont do the grocery shopping so I dont control what goes or stays. You need to just control yourself. Especially do not eat after 7. Sugar here is the enemy!!! I replaced my sweets with healthy cereal, granola bars, and yogurt. I know it doesnt sound too good, but trust me some cereals and granola bars are really good. I love desserts so what I do is turn the granola bar into a dessert. Try nature valley yogurt granola bars. Put them in the microwave for a few seconds and the yogurt on top melts a little and it tastes great because it's sweetened, but not oversweetened.
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